the best looking stance is the one that you like, from what I know the best handling stance is a drop if about 1.4.....but once you get into the world of handling your going to have much more to thing about other then drop lilke spring rate, sways, dampeners, tie bars, tires, wheel weight, brake system, body bracing,......for now I would say get some good coilovers and set the hight to what you want.